Are you finding it difficult to manage relationships? Always
stressed out? Feeling frustrated or defeated? Surrounded by conflict, blame and
repeating problems instead of clear thinking, agreement and action? Would you
like some new tools and strategies to change the way you're thinking about and
reacting to the drama situations you find yourself in?
Creating #DramaFree Conversations is an evening event
designed to help you reduce unnecessary conflict in your life, to move from
drama to calm collaboration – at work, at home and in your community.
Caitlin and Marian at their team of associates have spent over 20 years supporting individuals and groups to detect the dramas they’re in or the dramas other people are trying to get them into.
During this workshop they will offer tools, including clean questions, to encourage you to get curious about your dramas, unpack the key pieces, separate evidence from inference, come to understand what is actually happening and your part in it.
From this position of clarity, it’s possible to shift your attention towards what you would like to have happen instead. Just the act of unpacking drama can allow you to think and breathe more freely and become more creative in the options available to you.
You can’t always get what you want but you can take actions you are proud of. You don’t have to be going around the same old dramas day in and day out and wearing out your goodwill and patience.
Frequently asked questions
What is Clean Language?
Clean Language is a simple set of questions developed by counselling psychologist David Grove. These questions are used with a person's own words to direct their attention to some aspect of their own experience. Asking these questions in the right context often results in an interesting new insight or the recognition of some new possibility. And if that new possibility is then questioned using Clean Language, the result can be quite profound. Clean questions invite people to consider their experience from different perspectives and they are often surprised by their own capacity to generate new, powerful and useful ideas about their own experience.
What people say
"This is a brilliant event that really makes you think about the way language and behaviour influences what happens around us, whether it be in home or work life. It gives clear guidance on how to begin to change the dynamics to reduce drama and uses great examples to bring the whole thing to life."